Men. What the Fuck?

Have you ever wondered why we spend so much time worrying about men? Why we starve ourselves or why we buy shoes and shirts we can't afford this paycheck or even next paycheck?

I was looking at a friends Facebook status saying that is it "killing her a little bit everyday" without him. I understand love. I've been in love. It fucked me over, but I've still been in it.

But, really? Can your life be so much influenced by a man that you can't spend time without him? Hell, you're going to live the rest of your life with him (hopefully) so I really don't think this time away is going to hurt all that much.

I've started reading "He's Just Not That Into You" by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo. It's opened my eyes. I don't need to have a man to feel complete in my life. I don't need to spend COUNTLESS hours worrying why he's not calling or if I should call him or what his roommates think of me. 

You're a superstar. You've got good looks. You've got a great personality and You've got a wonderful life!

If a man comes along that adds to this - great! But you sure as hell shouldn't sacrifice what you have now just so you can have a man. 

Yes, sleeping alone at night isn't the best but - hey, it's not going to kill you.

Chins up ladies and fabulous gay men!

Live life for you.